What To Expect When You Meet With A Divorce Attorney

by | Apr 9, 2026 | Firm News

It can hard to choose a divorce attorney, and it can be intimidating to meet with one for the first time. Many people are exposed to lawyers and the legal process for the first time when they sit down to consult with a divorce lawyer. But meeting with a divorce attorney is an important step in understanding your rights, obligations and options when going through a divorce. Here’s what you can generally expect during your initial consultation with a divorce attorney:

  1. Discussion of your situation: Attorney Parks will ask you to provide details about your marriage, your spouse and the reasons for seeking a divorce. Come to the meeting prepared to discuss issues such as the length of your marriage, any children involved, assets, debts, and any concerns you have regarding child custody, support and property division.
  2. Assessment of your case: Based on the information you provide, attorney Parks will assess the strengths and weaknesses of your case and provide you with an honest evaluation of what you can expect during the divorce process. He will also discuss potential outcomes and strategies for achieving your goals.
  3. Explanation of rights and obligations: Attorney Parks will explain the laws and court rules that apply to your case, including issues related to child custody, visitation, child support, spousal support (alimony), and property and debt division.
  4. Discussion of legal fees and costs: Attorney Parks will explain the fee structure used at Parks Legal, LLC, including hourly rates, retainer fees and any additional costs associated with your case. He may also discuss alternative fee arrangements, such as flat fees or payment plans, depending on your financial situation.
  5. Explanation of legal process: Attorney Parks will explain the divorce process, including what goes into a complaint, what court hearings to expect, what legal rights and obligations you have during the case, and your options for negotiating a settlement or preparing for a trial.
  6. Confidentiality and attorney-client privilege: Your discussions with attorney Parks are confidential, and he is bound by attorney-client privilege, which means he cannot disclose any information you share with them unless required by law. Once you have met with him to discuss your case, he is also prevented from representing your spouse, because his knowledge of your side of the story creates a conflict of interest with your spouse.
  7. Questions and answers: You will have the opportunity to ask any questions you have about the divorce process, your legal rights, and Kelly’s experience and approach to handling divorce cases.

Overall, meeting with a divorce attorney is an opportunity to gain clarity about your rights and options, understand the legal process, and make informed decisions about how to proceed with your divorce. It’s important to choose an attorney who is experienced, knowledgeable and trustworthy, and with whom you feel comfortable working closely during what can be a challenging and emotional time.